For all the women out there, I needed to repost this gem:
10 Things I Want My Daughter to Know About Working Out
by brynnharrington on November 19, 2013
Mid-way through a recent group exercise class, the teacher lost me. She didn’t lose me because of some complicated step sequence or insanely long set of burpees; I mentally checked out because of a few words she kept saying over and over. “Come on! Get that body ready for your winter beach vacation! Think about how you want to look at those holiday parties! PICTURE HOW YOU’LL LOOK IN THAT DRESS!”
“THAT DRESS?” My brain couldn’t focus on an image of some random dress hanging in my closet. All I could think about was my three-year-old daughter hearing and trying to process those words.
My daughter’s little brain is making sense of the world every single second, taking in verbal and non-verbal cues about how things work and what things mean. And when it comes to exercise, I want her to grow up seeing it as a joy, and not a utility…as a gift, and not a chore…as an opportunity, not an obligation. I want her to do it for the love of it, not to fit into a dress. I want her to grow up knowing that…
- Strength equals self-sufficiency. Being strong – particularly as a woman – is empowering. It will feel good someday to be able to carry your own luggage down the stairs if the airport escalator is broken, and it will be important to have a solid shot at outrunning a stranger should you meet one a dark alley.
- Fitness opens doors. Being healthy and fit can help you see the world differently. The planet looks different from a bike or a pair of skis than it does from a car or an airplane. Out in the elements you have the time and space to notice details and meet people and remember smells and bugs and mud and rain and the feeling of warm sunshine on your face. And those are the moments that make up your life.
- The bike is the new golf course. Being fit may help you get a seat at the table. Networking is no longer restricted to the golf course, and the stronger you are – and the more people you can hang with on the road and trail – the more people you’ll meet.
- Exercise is a lifestyle, not an event. Being an active person isn’t about taking a class three times a week at the gym. It’s about things like biking to the grocery store and parking your car in the back of the lot and walking instead of taking a cab and catching up with friends on a hiking trail instead of a bar stool.
- Health begets health. Healthy behavior inspires healthy behavior. Exercise. Healthy eating. Solid sleep. Positive relationships. These things are all related.
- Endorphins help you cope. A good sweat session can clear the slate. You will have days when nothing seems to go right…when you’re dizzy with frustration or crying in despair. A workout can often turn things around.
- Working out signals hard-working. The discipline required to work out on a regular basis signals success. Someone recently told me they are way more likely to hire marathon runners and mountain climbers because of the level of commitment that goes into those pursuits.
- If you feel beautiful, you look beautiful. Looking beautiful starts on the inside. And being fit and strong feels beautiful.
- Nature rules. And if you’re able to hike/run/bike/swim/ski/snowshoe, you can see more of it.
- Little eyes are always watching. We learn from each other. You may have a daughter—or a niece or a neighbor or a friend – one day. And that little girl will be watching and listening to everything she you say and do. What messages do you want her to hear?
I’ll never talk to my daughter about fitting into THAT DRESS. But I will talk to her about what it sounds like to hear pine needles crunching under my feet and what it feels like to cross a finish line and how special it is to see the world on foot. I will talk to her about hard work and self sufficiency. I will teach her the joy of working out by showing her I love it. And I’ll leave the rest up to her.
This book saved me. Once I discovered this beautiful book by one of my favorite authors and inspirational health experts I instantly felt relief. At the time I had been dairy and soy free due to an intolerance in my nursing infant. I felt lost, overwhelmed and most of all, insatiable without my usual comfort foods. This book is easy to follow, complete with delicious and hearty, heart warming meals and also provides tips and insightful information.
This place is ahhhmazing- for all of you brooklyn friends out there looking to get your hands dirty in a garden after work, I encourage you to check it out. My family and I stumbled upon it recently as we strolled through williamsburg one summer evening and were blown away. It’s a little farm, tucked up there on Kent ave, right on the river. It’s a special place, even just for a quick visit. It reminds you to stay connected to the earth, even in the city.
“It’s hard to imagine civilization without onions.” — Julia Child
Onions are a great source of “antioxidants and flavonoids (which) may help promote heart health, reduce inflammation and decrease the risk of cancer, in addition to a load of other good things.” Read more here:
Salad in the winter usually doesn’t appeal to me as I typically crave more hearty and warming foods, however, this is a good one. It’s sort of a fall/winter hearty salad but can even be a meal. I used baby kale, quinoa and roasted root veggies with a cumin dressing. Cumin always seems to give a recipe a great, deep flavor and sort of takes it to the next level.
All of these vegetables are seasonal (from my CSA) and give you that deeply satisfying feeling of fullness when eaten. The vegetables I used here are carrots, rutabaga (love these! so good roasted like french fries), broccoli, cauliflower (not root) and beets. Super easy and the kale can hold the dressing for a while so you can easily eat this one for 2 meals and the flavors will macerate. Oh and of course I added feta cheese, a great option if you like or eat cheese. Enjoy!
1 cup cooked quinoa
1 cup mixed roasted vegetables
2-3 cups of baby kale, arugula or any other salad green you like
3 tbsp red wine vinegar
1/4 tsp cumin
1/2 cup olive oil
salt and pepper to taste
*optional: feta cheese
- Combined washed greens, cooked quinoa and roasted vegetables together in a large bowl.
- Make the dressing by combining the olive oil, vinegar, cumin, salt and pepper together and whisk rapidly. Add more vinegar, cumin or salt as needed.
- Toss all of the ingredients together.
- Add a protein such as chicken, tofu or beef for a more complete meal.
serves about 2-3 people